Being negative is something I think some of us is experiencing in life. Personally, I tend to be negative in everything that I do, what’s happening in my life and the people around me. Don’t get me wrong, but I can’t help but to be negative in everything I do.

1. Believe in Yourself – Always seeing yourself as a failure is the worst thing you can do. Give yourself a break. Learn to love yourself more than anyone else first. Then, appreciate everything you do. You may fail sometime but always learn not to give up and face the challenges life has to offer with a positive vibes. Just put your mind to something and appreciate the work you do.
2. Be Grateful – Be always always grateful to all the blessings you received and will receive. Remind yourself off all the good stuff in life. Try not to compare yourself with other people, instead be grateful of the things that are happening. Learn to appreciate people around you especially those who helped you in times of problems. Don’t forget to be thankful.
3. Failure is Natural – We can’t control what happens in our life, but we can control how we react to certain problem that comes our way. If something doesn’t go according to the plan, see this as a new opportunity. Always thrive hard to look at the bright side. Learn not to blame others of your failures, but strive hard and work better next time. Remember, you’re the one in-charge of your life.
4. Get Rid of Toxic Relationships – There are people who are taking advantage of you. Learn to know when to get rid of them. Once you see signs that something fishy is going on, keep yourself away from that person. Sometimes, being selective is okay. If you’re trying to be more positive, make sure you only surround yourself with like minded people.
5.  Being Positive is a Choice – Each morning we wake up with a fresh start and it’s up to us what attitude we’re going to adopt. Start the day with positive vibes and get rid of negativity. Promise yourself not to think of negative things instead change it to positive ones. Work in steps, one step at a day, and then expand it to weeks and the rest will follow. In time, you will simply get into habit of more positive thinking.